An elegant, warmly lit matchmaking workspace designed without people, featuring a sleek cream-colored desk against a soft off‑white wall. A sophisticated dark brown laptop sits open beside a gold-accented notebook and a fountain pen, with a pair of intertwined gold rings resting on a folded folder labeled with an abstract heart icon rather than text. The desk surface is a smooth walnut wood that glows under diffused pendant lighting. In the background, softly blurred, are framed minimalist art pieces in brown and gold tones. Photographic realism at eye level, with a shallow depth of field, creates a luxurious, inviting mood that suggests trust, professionalism, and marriage-focused matchmaking without showing any human subjects.

Connect to Marry

A Professional Introduction and Relationship Counseling Agency.

Founded by Irene Babs — happily married for over 20 years, guiding singles on this journey for more than 10 years.

Diverse lounge — Black and mixed-race men and women socialising

The Flag Show

Speed dating events with a twist

Family Introduction

Family‑led matching with care

Community Forum

Connect, network & stay updated

Featured Profiles

Profiles of verified, serious singles

Private Matchmaking

Find like-minded serious singles

Counselling & Guidance

Expert guidance for your journey

Our Mission

Where Sincere Intention Meets Lasting Love

We believe strong marriages begin long before the wedding day — they start with knowing who you are, what you value, and what kind of home you want to build.

We are a professional introduction and relationship counseling agency, dedicated to helping serious singles find healthy, lifelong companionship. We offer careful matchmaking, pre‑marital guidance, personal coaching, and a supportive community that walks with you at every step.

Our Approach

We combine years of hands‑on experience with genuine care:

Vetted Introductions — we know our members, so we connect people with real compatibility and shared values.

Counseling & Preparation — we help you grow, understand your needs, and build readiness for a thriving marriage.

Honest Guidance — we listen deeply; if something is not right for you, we tell you the truth with kindness. Marriage is sacred — and not for everyone at every stage.

Community & Support — beyond introductions, we build spaces where people learn, share, and grow together.

With thousands of success stories and over one million people who trust our work, we remain rooted in integrity, respect, and the belief that everyone deserves love built on truth and commitment.

Receive Connect to Marry

Relationship Insights

Pricing

Matchmaking Lite

one-off

£45

Guidance & review to check your readiness and potential to find a suitable partner within 2–3 months.

Premium Match

one-off

£120

Full Private Matchmaking & Family Introduction service

Elite Circle

from

£250

Fully tailored bespoke search: specific criteria, UK settlement/eligibility focus, dedicated support

Upcoming Events

August

Flag Lounge

London, UK

September

Candle Hall

Birmingham, UK

October

Harbour Suite

Manchester, UK

September

Skyline Bar

Leeds, UK

October

Aurora Lounge

Nottingham, UK

November

Velvet Rooms

Bristol, UK

November

Gold Ember

Cardiff, UK

December

Heritage Loft

Glasgow, UK

January

Signature Hall

Edinburgh, UK

Testimonials

Sarah F

“Within six months of joining Private Matchmaking, I met my fiancé. The process felt safe, intentional, and truly marriage-focused.”

Ada O

“The Flag Show events helped me practice real conversation, not just swiping. I finally felt seen, not sold to.”

Matt B

“Our counsellor challenged us kindly and practically. We walked into marriage with clarity instead of fear.”

Favour D.

“I love the Community Forum. Honest discussions, no judgment, and moderators who actually protect members.”